Lifegroup Discussion Questions: NEW, Part 1

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These lifegroup questions are based on this past Sunday’s message, “New, Part 1: Rediscovering Faith.”  You can listen to the 30-minute message at this link, and use the discussion questions in your lifegroup below.

What kinds of new year resolutions do people typically make?  Have we made any resolutions here in our group?  Have a look at this little chart, and let’s talk about how our group compares.

On Sunday, Steve says that “becoming new isn’t just a good idea, it is God’s idea.” He pointed to the following verses.

With the Lord’s authority I say this: Live no longer as the Gentiles do, for they are hopelessly confused. 18 Their minds are full of darkness; they wander far from the life God gives because they have closed their minds and hardened their hearts against him. 19 They have no sense of shame. They live for lustful pleasure and eagerly practice every kind of impurity.
20 But that isn’t what you learned about Christ. 21 Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, 22 throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception.  23 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. 24 Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. -Ephesians 4:17-24 NLT

So, as Christ followers, people who have “learned about Christ,” (v.20) we are supposed to be different, right?  How?  What are some of the characteristics of Jesus that we should be modeling?

Being like Jesus is hard, isn’t it?  Steve talked about how it is “Easy to believe IN God, but hard to believe God.”  What does this mean?  Is it true?

How does Jesus call us to be like Him in Matthew 25:31-46? Is this a good description of us?

Steve talked about having a “faith without borders” on Sunday.  What does that mean?  How do I redraw my borders in light of Romans 12:1-2?  Can I do this by myself?  Does God do it for me?  Or is there a partnership here?  (hint: Ephesians 4:23-24 explain this.)

Group exercise:  Write on a piece of paper two or three things to learn to trust God with in 2014.

One Key Concept that will Change you in 2014

It is 2014, and time for a change.  Some of us are still stuck in that 2013 “spiritual rut.”  Let’s be honest… Some of us have been stuck in that rut since 2012, 2011, or even longer, haven’t we?  You know what I’m talking about, right? You know that God has more for you than you are experiencing.  You know that the life you’re looking for… The life Jesus bought for you… Is much much deeper and richer than what you’re living today.  Read More

Prayer for 2014

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Getting ready for the new year, I sent this email to our church this week. I thought it would be good here.

We have a cat.  She is sitting on my desk staring at me right now as I type this email. The moment I sit back in my chair, she will climb right over into my lap to soak up some of my body heat. No matter how many times I put her back down on the floor, she jumps right back up into her desk position, waiting for the next opening so she can move right back into my lap. That’s what she does. She’s a cat. That’s what cats do. It is in her nature.

As a Christian, it is my nature to pray for my brothers and sisters, to love unconditionally, to respond to mistreatment with forgiveness. That is who Christ is, and since I have died to myself, He lives in me and changes my nature.

Or does he?

Sometimes, I am amazed at what naturally flows out of me when difficulties, frustrations, and roadblocks arise.  In fact, sometimes it seems like the smallest little issue causes the worst attitudes to come out of me. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever be able to love the person who hurts me. I struggle with control of my tongue. I fight hard to resist various types to sin that encroach into my life. Sometimes I experience victory… Other times I feel very defeated. My old nature wins way too often, and I don’t fully experience the new nature that Christ died to give me.

Can you relate at all?  Or is it just me?

My prayer for us in the new year is that we would truly experience the transformational work of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

Let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God- truly righteous and holy.
Ephesians 4:23-24

It is easy for us to just go about our life, mixing victory and defeat.  We get really used to it.  We even give up, content to settle, thinking that “this is just the way it is for me.”  But it doesn’t have to be that way.  I believe that once we truly experience the new nature that He works into us, we will see our lives change, our church grow, and we will bear much fruit as a result!

For 2014, I am praying that The Orchard Church will experience God in a whole new way, that we will truly live the NEW life that he has bought for us, and that we become a radical agent of transformation in lives all around us.

And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
Romans 12:1-2

2013 Messages Series Review

Here are the message series graphics from 2013.  This doesn’t include “stand alone” messages done by me, or by guest speakers… These are just series’ graphics for each individual series.  Do you remember these?  You can click on the images, and go right to the podcast page that contains that entire series.

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Integrity Issues

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Good morning, class!  Today’s lesson is about “integrity.”  In case you don’t know, integrity is simply being who you say you are.  It is about standing for who you are and what you believe no matter what the circumstances or consequences.  When you are true to your word, you are showing integrity.

Phil Robertson of A&E’s extremely popular “Duck Dynasty” reality series is a man of integrity.  When interviewed by GQ magazine, he used some pretty crass, degrading language, but he definitely stood by the writings of the Apostle Paul in his response to the question of whether homosexuality is a sin.

Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.  1Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV

(I love these verses, because they clearly show that ALL of us are broken badly by sin… That none of us, including myself ever had any hope of taking part in the Kingdom of God.  BUT, that my justification and sanctification by the sacrifice of Jesus and the work of the Holy Spirit changes me. That’s the Gospel at work, right there!)

What Phil really did was to show integrity.  He proved to us that his on-screen persona is EXACTLY the person he is in real life.  On screen, AND in real life, He is definitely a Southern, redneck, conservative, plain-spoken Christian who believes in God’s Word.

What A&E is doing to Phil shows a lack of integrity.  They have been more than happy to make millions of dollars off of these southern, redneck, conservative, plain-spoken Christians, knowing exactly what they believe in and stand for… All while claiming that their organization supports gay rights activism.  They just got caught with their hand in the cookie jar, and now they are playing innocent.  Now, because of the attention drawn to this interview, they’ve made the simple calculation that they can make more money without Phil than they can with him.  In suspending him, they’re proving that no matter what they may say, they don’t stand with Phil, OR with the LGBT alliance.. They are loyal to money, and that is all.

So, class… The question comes to us.  Am I a person of integrity?  Do I live by the values I claim, or are they just a convenient friend in easy times?  Am I living Godly values in my work ethic?  In the way I spend my money?  In the way I treat my family?  If my life was under such a microscope, would I be found to be true to who I claim to be?  Of course, NONE of us is fully there yet.  I am certainly not.  But, because I have been justified by Christ, the Holy Spirit continues to sanctify me and make me more and more like Him.  Let Him work in you.  Let him knock off all those rough edges, and clean up those inconsistencies.  It won’t be easy, but it will be for HIS glory.

Our First “Permanent” Sunday

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We had our first “permanent” worship service on Sunday.  Even though the weather was bad outside, we had an incredible time inside.  Here are a few of my thoughts from yesterday:

It was definitely a “Wow” experience

Everyone that spoke with me was very pleased with the changes that we were able to make in one week.  The new “front” of the auditorium seemed to be a pretty big hit.  I heard several people leaving comment that it was “one of the best” services they have ever been to. The band was awesome, the song set was perfect. Holly and Hannah Chastain did fantastic with their welcome and video.

More Than I Expected

I still haven’t received an actual count from yesterday. We set up enough chairs to accommodate everyone we expected… I was so surprised that we had to bring in dozens of chairs, and that we ended up with standing room only!

Traffic Flow Outside

I was really shocked to see so very many cars in the parking lot outside!  All this time, I’ve been saying that we had plenty of parking on the lower level near the main building, but boy, was I wrong.  We’ve talked about a few options, and we will be working on this.  As of now, all staff and leadership team people will arrive at the facility early and park on the upper level by the portable buildings.

Traffic Flow Inside

Okay, so we are definitely going to have to make some changes to the way we move around inside the building, aren’t we?  It was described to me as “chaotic” before the service, and “mosh pit” after!  The good news is that we already anticipated this to be a problem, and we have a plan in place to move some walls around to create more flow.  You should see that happening pretty soon.

Many People Worked Hard

SO many people showed that they were interested enough that they were willing to take time this week to be in the facility working to provide a great space and a great “wow” opportunity for us.  Thank you so much to everyone who helped out.

The Holy Spirit Moves

Having spent the whole week inside that building working on stuff, I really had little time to prepare for Sunday’s message… But the Holy Spirit steps in and just takes over, doesn’t he?  Despite the short prep time, the Gospel was proclaimed, and God moved.

More to come… Later.

We are definitely working some good plans for more changes in the building, including increasing interior traffic flow efficiency, better check-in and check-out processes for Children’s Ministry, upgrade Elementary and Route 56, and lots more.  Not to mention new ministry opportunites starting in January!  BUT for now, I am exhausted.  I will think about all that tomorrow.

This Is It.

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It has been a long time coming, but The Orchard Church is “permanent” beginning this weekend.  Come celebrate with us on Sunday morning at 10AM.  I hope to see you there.

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Portable to Permanent Big Update

Looks like we have a deal!  We’ve been working for weeks to try to get this thing settled, and it looks like it is finally about to happen for real.  I’ve got several very important updates about this in the video, but here are some of the highlights:

  • Closing date is now November 26
  • Light Up Ellijay Outreach: November 29
  • Final worship service at Ellijay Elementary: Dec 1
  • VIP Night: Dec 3
  • PARENT PREVIEW: Dec 5
  • First worship service in our new home: Dec 8

Be sure to follow me and The Orchard on Facebook and Twitter for the latest updates.  “Like,” share, and retweet to help us get the word out!

Lifegroup Discussion: One Baptism

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This post is a follow up to Sunday’s message, “One Baptism,” which is part 6 of our “One” message series.  If you didn’t hear the message, you can listen at the link below.  You can also subscribe to our weekly podcast episodes via our iTunes link, or use whichever podcast download method you choose. 

Re-read the text for our current message series: Ephesians 4:1-6.
The passage is an encouragement for us to “live worthy.”  So, what is the main focus for us in these verses?
How many times does the word “one” occur in this passage?  How many times in verses 5 and 6?
Is this important?  Why or why not?
ON Sunday, we talked about our “one baptism.” (4:5)  I talked about how we get caught up in the “picture,” and we forget the “relationship.”   What does this mean, and how does it apply to us?

The Roman Catholic Church, and several protestant denominations teach that baptism is necessary for salvation.

Luther’s Small Catechism:
[Baptism] works forgiveness of sins, delivers from death and the devil, and gives everlasting salvation to all who believe, as the word and promise of God declare.
The Book of Concord, trans. and ed. Theodore G. Tappert (Philadelphia: Fortress Press, 1959), 348–349.

The Augsburg Confession:
It is taught that Baptism is necessary and that grace is offered through it. Children, too, should be baptized, for in Baptism are committed to God and are acceptable to him.
-Ibid, 33

So, that isn’t what we teach… Right?

So, what do we do with verses like these?

  • John 3:5
  • Acts 2:38
  • Acts 22:16
  • 1 Peter 3:21

Improperly understood, it seems you can use these verses to make a Biblical case for baptism salvation theology. Clearly, however, we believe that there is something much bigger than “getting dunked” at work here.

First, Scripture is very clear that we are justified by faith in Christ’s sacrifice on the cross alone.  No question about that at all.  Even Old Testament believers were justified by faith and faith alone.

  • Romans 4:3
  • Romans 5:1
  • Galatians 3:8
  • Ephesians 2:8-9 (one of my favorite passages!)

So, we look through the lens of God’s grace when we look at these other, more “controversial” scriptures (as mentioned above.)  We understand Jesus’ words in John 3:5 (“born of water”) to be a common phrase meaning to be physically born.

The other verses (Acts 2, Acts 22, and 1 Peter 3) cause us to have to think a little bit deeper.  It makes us think about what the nature of salvation really is.  Remember, salvation is both an event, and a process.  It is made up of both justification, which is completely by faith and done at the cross, and there is also sanctification, which is a faith partnership between us and God… It is His ongoing work of salvation in our lives as we “work out our salvation.”  (Philippians 2:12)

Having this multi-faceted understanding of Biblical salvation allows us to see baptism as part of our salvation… It is a component of our sanctification, but not part of our justification.  Because of that, it allows us to look at the broader definition of baptism, being “plunged into Christ,” as opposed to the simple “picture” of being dunked under water.  (I tried really hard to explain that clearly on Sunday morning.)  So, when Peter says “Baptism… now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a good conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ,”  We can understand that our Baptism CAN be key to our salvation (sanctification) as a response (or appeal) to God for a good conscience.  This is a great description of an obedient Christian in the sanctification process!

So, have you taken the step of believer’s baptism in your life?  If not, what is holding you back?

You can hear Sunday’s message here, which I’m sure will make this all even more confusing.  What do you think?  Hit me up in the comments or shoot me an email!  I want to hear your thoughts.

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Black Friday Creep

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Apparently this has happened before, but I missed it.  Walmart and many of the nation’s top retailers are offering their “Black Friday” deals beginning on Thursday, Thanksgiving Day at 6PM.  In fact, Walmart is offering over 20 “guaranteed items” that you may not be able to get any other time, except during those times.  Best Buy and others are offering similar Thursday-only deals.  “Black Friday” is slowly moving more and more into Thanksgiving Thursday… So they’re calling it the “Black Friday Creep.”

You know, I can understand how, in a market inundated with extreme competition, playing against online retailers, consumer dollars harder to get… I can understand how they have to do what they think they have to do.  The competition is stiff, and if ONE player starts the game early, then they all feel like they have to jump in and compete, or potentially lose sales. From a retailer’s perspective, it makes total sense.

But is this really what we’ve come to as a nation?  Thanksgiving is called “Thanksgiving” for a reason, isn’t it?  It is a day that we as a nation decided was important enough to set aside as a national holiday to rest, recuperate, and reflect on all the blessings that we have been given.  It is day of giving thanks to the One who has given us all the blessings we enjoy.  It is a day set aside for us to restore our soul.

Now, Thanksgiving is already kind of diminished by football, the parades, by everybody working hard to make the meal just right, and everything else… Now the capitalism creeps even farther in, devolving it just a little more…  If you want the really good deals for this Christmas… Well, those are on Thursday.

So I have a question for you.  Is saving $50 on a TV really worth it?  Are you willing to sacrifice the health of your soul for a good deal on your Christmas gifts?  Some deals just aren’t about the money.

Sure, I realize that some families really enjoy the shopping experience together… It might even be part of their “love language.”  So it would be easy to just say, “hey.. Just be sure to work your actual giving of thanks in at some point over the weekend.  You don’t have to do it on Thursday… Just make sure you get it in somehow.  Sure.  But, doesn’t it seem very hypocritical of us Christians to be praying for God to spiritually reawaken our country, yet abdicating our responsibility to the families in our nation, causing them to work on a national day of rest and Thanksgiving?

So, I don’t know about you, but I am NOT going out to shop on Thanksgiving Day.  I say don’t listen to the voices of capitalism when they scream “save, save.”  I say get the regular Friday deal, or just go without.  Nothing… NOTHING you buy this Christmas could possibly be as valuable as the time you could and should be spending with your family, giving thanks to God.  What good is gaining the whole world if you only lose your soul?  Is anything worth more than your soul?

In fact, I will go one further… Take some time on Thanksgiving and talk with your kids about WHY you aren’t doing this.  Ask your children whether they think the stuff is more important, or spending time with God is more important.  I’m pretty sure I know how they will answer.  AND I am positive that having this kind of spiritually formative discussion with your family will be the thing they talk about for decades to come.  They’ll forget whatever you buy them, but they will remember and live by the spiritual value you instill in them this holiday season.

Don’t be a Black Friday Creep this holiday season.  Make this Thanksgiving count for something more than merchandise.